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A life, my father’s

Well, how do you like them apples? After an afternoon peppered with beyond-frustrating experiences trying to get my deceased father's Verizon accounts squared up (including numerous calls that ended up in voicemail-option loophole-hell, being shuttled around to who knows how many people at Verizon, and being told that some mystery account can't be accessed unless…

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One more day

I've come to understand I'm a seasonal person, and I have a seasonal personality. Today, as I attempt to keep at bay a fatigue that's making me want to buckle at the knees, I remembered that it's February 1st, the last day before February 2 and a time many cultures/peoples celebrate as the beginning of spring. I…

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Supported

Incredibly weepy this morning when I was helping my mom put up her Christmas tree today. Not like I have lots of sweet, easily recalled, Hollywood-like memories of my dad at Christmas. (My dad  was around though not very present.) It was more like a visceral deepening of the understanding that Never Again Will I…

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Thankful

Today was the day. It made the most sense. My sister was in town from the Bay Area; it was an easy day for my brother to come into Columbia; and, well, it just made sense, being a holiday, a holy day and all. Earlier today, in an incredibly casual, yet equally sincere, ceremony (of sorts), my…

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My dad died

Yeah, my dad died. Wow, was that ever a surprise. I mean, I knew and could see he was rapidly becoming more frail and winded, and I knew for as much as he wanted to live independently, those days were starting to become numbered. The surprise was in the depth of experience in his death… how I…

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A true gentleman

There is a gentle man who comes through the neighborhood where I live. He does this each year, in the fall, like clockwork, offering to clean leaves out of gutters and to do minor patches on roofs. His prices are quite reasonable, and I have used his service often, as has my mother. Physically, this…

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